Who CHAMPS Academy Helps | Confidence Coaching Ages 8–19 | Annette Du Bois
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Who we help

For young people who are struggling and need more individual support

Annette works with children and teenagers aged 8 to 19 where general advice, school support or previous approaches have not made the difference a family hoped for. The difficulty might be confidence, anxiety, friendships, school, emotions, neurodivergence — or something harder to name. Often it is a combination.

In short: CHAMPS Academy provides specialist online confidence coaching for children and teenagers aged 8 to 19, working with difficulties including anxiety, low confidence, social challenges, school avoidance, exam stress, emotional overwhelm, neurodivergence (ADHD, autism, dyslexia) and communication difficulties at home. All coaching is delivered online via Zoom by Annette Du Bois to families across the UK, USA, UAE, Europe and beyond. A formal diagnosis is not required.

Age groups

Does this sound like your child or teenager?

Select the age group that fits your child or teenager. The situations below are drawn from the young people Annette works with most often.

Ages 8–12

The years when confidence foundations form

This age group is navigating friendships, settling into school, managing bigger emotions and working out where they fit in. When something is not quite right, parents often notice it before their child can put it into words.

  • Worrying a lot about getting things wrong, even small things
  • Not wanting to go somewhere unless a friend they know is going
  • Finding it hard to join in with groups or make new friends
  • Getting very upset when things do not go to plan
  • Refusing to try something new because they are worried about failing
  • Saying things like “I can’t do it” or “I’m not good at anything”
  • Becoming very quiet or withdrawn at home after school
  • Struggling to manage emotions when things feel overwhelming
  • Needing a lot of reassurance before everyday situations
  • Finding the step up to secondary school daunting
Ages 13–17

The years when pressure builds from every direction

Teenagers are managing more at once: academic expectations, social dynamics, identity, exams and independence. What parents see at home is often very different from what teachers see at school.

  • Holding everything together at school and then falling apart at home
  • Comparing themselves with others constantly, often harshly
  • Avoiding activities or clubs because they do not know anyone going
  • Knowing what needs to be done but repeatedly struggling to start it
  • Becoming overwhelmed by homework, revision or school expectations
  • Withdrawing from friends or family without explanation
  • Reacting strongly to things that seem minor to others
  • Worrying about what other people think, including online
  • Finding conversations or social situations genuinely difficult
  • Becoming defensive or dismissive when parents try to help
  • Struggling through exam periods despite wanting to do well
  • Going to school but clearly not coping, or beginning to avoid it
Ages 18–19

The years when independence becomes the expectation

The transition into adult life — university, employment, living independently — brings a different kind of pressure. For young people who have always found confidence, organisation or self-belief difficult, this period can be particularly challenging.

  • Struggling with independence, organisation or managing daily responsibilities
  • Feeling behind where they expected to be at this stage
  • Finding the structure of university or work harder than anticipated
  • Procrastinating on important tasks despite understanding the consequences
  • Anxiety increasing as the external structure of school falls away
  • Difficulty asking for help or communicating what they are finding hard
  • Feeling like everyone else is managing but them
  • Struggling with new social environments or building new friendships
  • Avoiding decisions or opportunities because of fear of getting it wrong
What brings families to CHAMPS

The situations parents recognise

These are not clinical categories. They are the kinds of everyday difficulties parents describe when they first contact Annette.

Confidence and self-belief

Comparing themselves with others, worrying about getting things wrong, needing reassurance before everyday situations, holding back from things they want to try, giving up quickly, or not believing they are capable — even when the evidence suggests otherwise.

Friendships and social confidence

Difficulty making or maintaining friendships, feeling left out, avoiding activities where they do not already know somebody, struggling with conversations, worrying about what others think, or misreading social situations in ways that affect how they get on with peers.

School, motivation and getting things done

Not wanting to go to school, difficulty starting homework, procrastination, poor organisation, exam overwhelm, and knowing exactly what needs doing but repeatedly struggling to do it. This is often more about confidence and internal pressure than ability.

Anxiety, overthinking and emotions

Worry escalating quickly, replaying situations long after they have happened, becoming overwhelmed and shutting down, freezing before tests or social situations, emotional reactions that feel out of proportion, and difficulty recovering when something goes wrong.

Neurodivergence and executive functioning

ADHD, autism, dyslexia and related differences that affect organisation, starting tasks, emotional regulation, communication, friendships, flexibility and independence. See the section below for how Annette approaches neurodivergence specifically.

Communication and family life

Not opening up at home, becoming defensive when parents try to help, arguments around school, routines, devices or responsibilities, and parents feeling increasingly unsure whether to push, step back or try something different. Often the difficulty is not unwillingness — it is that the young person does not know how to say what is happening.

Neurodivergence

The diagnosis does not tell Annette what your child or teenager needs

Two teenagers with ADHD can present completely differently. The same is true for autism, dyslexia and other differences. The label is a starting point, not a prescription.

Annette works with the individual, not the diagnosis

One young person with ADHD might struggle mainly with starting tasks and time management. Another might find emotional regulation the hardest part. A third might have difficulties with friendships, impulsivity, confidence or independence. Annette works to understand how that particular young person’s brain, experiences, strengths and difficulties are affecting their everyday life — and builds her approach around that.

The same principle applies across autism, dyslexia and related differences. Areas that commonly come up include executive functioning, transitions, processing speed, social understanding, communication, emotional regulation, organisation and independence — but which of these matter most will be different for every young person.

ADHD Autism Dyslexia Executive functioning Emotional regulation Organisation & independence Transitions Social understanding Processing Communication
A formal diagnosis is not required. Annette works with the individual challenges a young person is experiencing, whether or not there is a diagnosis in place. If your child or teenager is awaiting assessment, showing possible traits, or simply struggling in these areas, that is enough to apply.
Where we work

All coaching takes place online, allowing Annette to work personally with children, teenagers and families throughout the UK, USA, UAE, Europe and beyond. No travel is needed — coaching takes place on Zoom at a time that suits the family. Annette has dedicated availability for families in the UAE; visit the UAE page for more information.

Important to know

When coaching may not be the right fit

Coaching works best in the right circumstances

CHAMPS Academy coaching is a structured, practical programme focused on confidence, mindset and skills for everyday life. It is not a substitute for medical care or crisis support, and it works best when a young person is in a stable enough place to engage with it actively.

If Annette feels that a young person’s needs fall outside what she provides — or that another form of support should come first — she will tell the parent clearly and, where possible, suggest a more appropriate route. This is part of the reason the application process matters: it allows Annette to form a genuine view before any commitment is made.

If you are unsure whether coaching is right for your child or teenager, the application is the right place to start. Annette reads every application personally and will be honest about whether she believes she can help.

Not sure whether Annette can help?

The application allows you to tell Annette what is happening, what you have already tried and what you would most like to change. She reviews every application personally — and will be straightforward with you about whether she believes CHAMPS Academy is the right fit.

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Common questions

Questions about who we work with

Annette works with children and teenagers across three age groups: 8 to 12, 13 to 17, and 18 to 19. All coaching takes place online via Zoom, so no travel is needed.
No. A formal diagnosis is not required. Annette works with the individual challenges a young person is experiencing, whether or not a diagnosis is in place. If your child or teenager is awaiting assessment or simply struggling in these areas, that is enough to apply.
Yes. The application exists so Annette can understand what is actually happening — not just which category it fits. Many families arrive with a general sense that something is not right rather than a specific label. Annette will read your application and be straightforward about whether she believes she can help.
Coaching is a structured, practical programme focused on confidence, mindset and skills for everyday life. It is not a substitute for medical care or crisis support. If Annette feels a young person’s needs fall outside what she provides, she will say so clearly and, where possible, suggest a more appropriate route.
Yes. All coaching takes place online via Zoom, so Annette works with families across the UK, USA, UAE, Europe and beyond. She has dedicated availability for families in the UAE.